its really not that big of a deal. when the little things in life, the tiniest little speck of drama comes up, people bite. they love it. i really dont understand why. you just cant get something off your chest anymore without it biting you in the ass. yeah ive had my share of bites but i learn from each one. cant we all just accept the mistakes weve made and move on? some yes, may take time and patience to get over but its worth it. why be uncivil in any way towards one another? i understand my actions were uncivil but ive realized the error of my ways and am over it. i hate grudges, there is absolutely no point in them. any kind of hatred is ugly. everyone else has moved on, why shouldnt you? speaking generally of course cause i know a lot of people who hold grudges. fact of the matter is why let one little upset ruin what could be a somewhat normal, happy life? im done learning life lessons over little problems. i should have already learned by now but that last bite really taught me a lesson.
maturity > grudges